Wednesday, December 1, 2010

How To Get Your Ex Back And Sex Back

Sexual performance is a matter of personal pride, physical release, connection to soul, connection to your loved one, and just plain fun.

Are you having enough fun? Americans have gone through a dismal time in our recent history. Job lay-off has been the cause of diminished confidence. And how about the financial worry that goes along with job lay-off.

If you are one of the happy people who still has a job, how much harder are you working than you ever have before?

And how about those taxes?? If you are one of the many who has lost their job, where does the money come from for the increased taxes? If you still have a job, how does it feel to work so much harder just to support the government?

So, what does this have to do with sex? Maybe you can get your ex back and sex back. Bye the way, to get back to the point, how much fun are you having? Does your partner look at you with dismay when you bring up the subject of romance? Is he/she working equally as hard, and coping with the stress to the extent of being robotic?

So, as a last resort, let's go for the little pill to get us functional. And how do you get your partner cranked up?

The stress and worry are not a friend of fun. Life is still what you make it. Have you bought into the advertising agencies' picture of what life should look like? Is it really all about money?

I'd like to suggest that the more expensive your pass-times become, the less fun you're really having. Have we lost the joy of sex in the fatigue of regimentation? Maybe retaining your corporate position has trained you that your breaks must be scheduled, and only a respite before jumping back into the melee.

I'd like to suggest we need to get a grip and remember our humanity. Regardless of religious affiliation, cultures around the world tell of the intimate relationship between sex and humanity. Most cultures are loud in their emphasis on rest.

You will be one happy human if you remember to get back on the same mind-set of reciprocal appreciation and carefree together time with the person you love. You won't need mechanical jump-starts to get you going.

But you may have a misfire from time to time, and that's fun too, if it involves your best friend and you. The important thing is the closeness and private good humor. I think they call it intimacy. So you see too get your ex back, you need your sex back.

I think we have been trained to meet the needs and guidelines of corporations, government, institutions, schools, neighbors---everyone but ourselves and our lovers.

Let's change that with attention to lovers. Make space sacred for the two of you. Make time sacred for the two of you. How about devoting weekends to free space and love. Maybe you won't have sex as often as the mechanical supports force you to; but you may have closer and more human sex. And I would like to suggest the quantity of sex will catch up to the quality of sex after your lover and you remember to appreciate what you have.

But whether it is fireworks sex, funny misfires, or hilarious friend time, it'll be great to get your old friend back.

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